Friday, 23 October 2015
A New Toy
"That's my dream car" said Harshal.
"That's my dream car" said Priya.
"That's my dream car" said Moons.
That was my husband's dream car for a lifetime.
A lifetime doesn't last forever, does it?
So a week ago, we decided to buy a pre-owned Mini Cooper convertible when we got a deal which was as good as a steal.
I called my mum the next day.
"Mum, we have a new car. It is called Mini."
"Minnie?" she asked, "Like Mickey's friend in the cartoons?"
"Oh yes!" I said.
My young nephew asked, "New?"
"No" I said, "Pre-loved by someone, but in good condition."
"Pre-loved always better" he said.
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Choices
Sunday, 4 October 2015
Man, Woman, and the Cat
In a tribal village in India
there lived a newly married couple.
The wife’s name was Suma and the husband’s name was Vasu.
The wife’s name was Suma and the husband’s name was Vasu.
Both Suma and Vasu had built
their hut together. They had decided that like other families in the village,
the husband would go to work on the farm and earn money while the wife would
stay at home and do household work. Suma and Vasu had agreed that whatever
money Vasu earned would be shared equally by them both. They kept their leather
money pouch tucked behind a loose brick in the wall.
A kitten named Mani also lived
with them. Mani was a special cat because she knew human languages. When Vasu
went to work, she would talk to Suma.
One day, Suma noticed that two of
the mud pots that she used for cooking had cracked.
That evening when Vasu came home, she said,
“Vasu, we need to buy two new mud
pots.”
“How many pots do we have?” asked
Vasu.
“We had six but two are cracked”
answered Suma.
“Well, then, my dear, I am sure
you can cook in the remaining four pots. The money we save can be kept for our
future children” said Vasu.
Suma agreed with him and somehow
managed to cook in four pots.
The next week, Vasu decided that
he wanted to put up a wooden fence around their house.
“Suma, I want to put up a fence
around the house to protect it so we will have to buy some strong wood.”
Suma brought out their money
pouch and gave him the money. When he left, Mani meowed,
“When he wants money he takes it, when you wanted it, you couldn’t.”
“When he wants money he takes it, when you wanted it, you couldn’t.”
Suma hushed her and said it was
for a good reason.
One night Suma couldn’t sleep
because the bed made creaking sounds. In the morning, she saw that one of its
legs was broken.
“Vasu, let’s get a new bed. This
one is broken and I cannot sleep at night” she said to her husband.
Vasu examined the broken leg of
the bed and said,
“Listen, my dear, I can easily
fix this leg with some nails. The money we save can be kept for our future
children.”
Vasu fixed the bed with nails but it still creaked.
Vasu fixed the bed with nails but it still creaked.
The next week, Vasu saw that some
of his gardening tools had rusted. He told Suma that he wanted some new tools.
Suma brought out their money pouch and gave him the money. When he left, Mani meowed,
“When he wants money he takes it, when you wanted it, you couldn’t.”
“When he wants money he takes it, when you wanted it, you couldn’t.”
Suma hushed her and said it was
for a good reason.
The next month, while fetching
water from the stream, Suma’s saree brushed against a thorny bush and tore.
“Vasu, I need a new saree. See
this one is torn” she said.
“My dear, you are an excellent
seamstress. I know you can easily patch it up and it will be good as new. The
money we save can be kept for our future children.” said Vasu.
Then one day, Vasu saw that the
shirts of the other workers on the farm were better than his. In order to make
a good impression on his employers and the other workers, he needed a new
shirt.
“Suma, all the other workers have
nice crisp shirts. Mine is old and faded. If I buy a new one, it will make me
look smarter and I may even get a promotion” said Vasu.
Suma brought out their money
pouch and gave him the money. When he left, Mani meowed,
“When he wants money he takes it, when you wanted it, you couldn’t.”
“When he wants money he takes it, when you wanted it, you couldn’t.”
Suma hushed her and said it was
for a good reason.
The next year, Suma’s parents
sent a message that they were going to visit her because they had not seen her
for a long time.
Suma said to Vasu,
“My parents are visiting soon. We will have to buy two new pots, a new bed, and a new saree for me.”
“My parents are visiting soon. We will have to buy two new pots, a new bed, and a new saree for me.”
Vasu replied,
“My darling, you have been managing very well cooking in the four good pots that we have. And what is the need for another bed when your parents will be staying only for a few days? We can spread a cosy mattress for them on the floor. You look beautiful as ever in that old saree. Just think – the money we save can be kept for our future children.”
“My darling, you have been managing very well cooking in the four good pots that we have. And what is the need for another bed when your parents will be staying only for a few days? We can spread a cosy mattress for them on the floor. You look beautiful as ever in that old saree. Just think – the money we save can be kept for our future children.”
Suma was unhappy but she kept
quiet. She told her parents that she would pay them a visit instead.
The next month, it was Vasu’s
parents who sent a message that they would be visiting on their way to a pilgrimage.
“Suma, my dear” said Vasu
excitedly, “We need to make proper arrangements for my parents. Do we have
enough pots and plates? I think it’s time to get some new furniture and nice
clothes for both of us. Please get our money pouch and let us see how much
money we have.”
Suma did not get the money pouch.
She looked at Mani and Mani looked back at her meaningfully.
Suma stood with her hands on her
hips.
“Vasu” she said in a strong voice
“Every time you wanted money, I gave it to you. But every time, I wanted money,
you said that if we save the money we can keep it for our future children. So
now onwards, let us keep all our money for our future children and let’s not
buy anything.”
“But my parents are visiting”
said Vasu.
“Yes, I know” smiled Suma “I will
cook for them in the four pots, spread a cosy mattress for them on the floor,
wear my patched saree and look as beautiful as ever.”
It was then that Vasu realised his
mistake. He and Suma went shopping together to buy the things they needed.
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Stories
Tuesday, 29 September 2015
Shaila, the Dressmaker
During the last monsoon, on our visit to Vasai, I came across a remarkably successful lady.
I had gone to order some dresses for my mother-in-law when I met the famous Shaila Tailor. Her shop was full of colourful fabrics and dresses, baby frocks, and suncoats on hangers. While I talked to her, five ladies selected fabric and waited for their turn. It was a busy time in the shop although it was a weekday morning.
From a very young age, Shaila had a passion for dressmaking.
On the insistence of her family, she did her graduation and also did a physical education teacher's training. But she didn't have any interest in teaching.
Her sister, who is five years her senior, had given her a sewing machine. On the machine Shaila made dresses for her neighbours. She had dressmaking orders right after she finished high school. She had done a short term course in tailoring as a teenager and was hooked to this hobby for life.
After marriage, her husband, Vinay, supported her hobby which made her a small entrepreneur of sorts. A few years later, they faced hard times because the TV company where Vinay worked showed signs of closing down. They also had a small grocery shop in the village but they had a family to support and the income was not enough.
Shaila decided to open a tailoring shop in the grocery shop. Vinay, as always, encouraged her enthusiasm. As the years went by, her business expanded and the tailoring shop completely took over the grocery shop. With a bank loan, Shaila and Vinay had the courage to approach a wholesale fabric supplier in Ahmedabad.With hardwork and good decisions, their business continued to grow.
Presently Shaila and Vinay stay in a two-story house which they have built near the shop. The lower floor of the house is used as a store and workshop. The assistants and tailors who are employed there have a separate entry gate and a creche for their babies. Besides this little shop, they have also rented another shop near the town center.
Vinay says, "All this has happened because of Shaila's hard work and the constant smile that never leaves her face."
While I talk to Shaila and Vinay, their 8 year-old son, Aryan, serves me a glass of water on a tray which he neatly balances. Then he tidies up the room. Simply remarkable!
Labels:
People
Monday, 21 September 2015
Sophie's Spring Collection
Sophie is the admin of our school chat group.
She's nice. And sensible. She would never ever post junk. That's why she is a most respected group admin.
It came as a surprise when about a week ago she posted this message:
Hello everyone!
I have been working with a friend of mine for some fashion accessories. If you guys don't mind, can I please introduce and post some pics of my Spring Collection out here?
Nobody responded to this on that day. It was so unlike Sophie to 'use' her friends like this.
The next day Deepa posted:
Sophie please feel free to post whatever you wish. Repeat jokes se to accha hi hoga.
(Three winking smileys with tongues sticking out.)
Deepa is quite concerned about the issue of jokes being repeated on our chat group.
Sophie responded:
Thanks, Deepa, for being kind enough and let me present my Spring Collection 2015.
(A smiley with laughing tears.)
And then Sophie posted this pic.
Leena said:
Wow Sophi! What a collection!
More and more smileys followed this.
Sophie (blowing a kiss):
Will give you all discounts. Start imagining where you can hang the springs!
Labels:
Happenings
Wednesday, 9 September 2015
A Town of Teachers
"If you are a teacher's daughter and if you want to marry,
You would marry a teacher's son more than anybody..."
These are lines from a picnic and party song which was popular when we were in school. The song goes on to say that a farmer's daughter would marry a farmer's son, and how a milkman's daughter would have no choice but to marry a milkman's son, and so on.
In the 60s,70s and 80s, many people from our hometown of Vasai took up teaching careers to explore new job opportunities in and around Mumbai city. The earlier generations had led a more agrarian lifestyle till jobs in Indian railways and Mumbai Port Trust hired people with basic school education. Some had taken up practical occupations like carpentry and construction.
However, with the growth in education, thanks to the priests and nuns who ran strict schools, a teaching job in a government-aided school offered a favourable option. Many young men and women in the 60s became teachers. Among them were my parents. Their academic lifestyles, moral values, and a light but regular pay packet at the end of the month attracted many youngsters into this noble profession.
During the 80s, almost every school in Mumbai had at least one teacher from Vasai. The culture of studiousness and the confidence that this crop of teachers instilled in their own offspring led to the next generation aspiring for diverse professional courses. Presently, in Vasai, you will come across physiotherapists, dentists, engineers, air hostesses, sailors, builders, interior designers, architects, and so on. But by and large, for the girls, a teaching career is still a popular option.
On a personal level, I started my career as a journalist and eventually walked in my parents footsteps to become a teacher. On the other hand, my brothers and husband chose the technical field.
As the song above goes I did marry a teacher's son, after all.
You would marry a teacher's son more than anybody..."
These are lines from a picnic and party song which was popular when we were in school. The song goes on to say that a farmer's daughter would marry a farmer's son, and how a milkman's daughter would have no choice but to marry a milkman's son, and so on.
In the 60s,70s and 80s, many people from our hometown of Vasai took up teaching careers to explore new job opportunities in and around Mumbai city. The earlier generations had led a more agrarian lifestyle till jobs in Indian railways and Mumbai Port Trust hired people with basic school education. Some had taken up practical occupations like carpentry and construction.
However, with the growth in education, thanks to the priests and nuns who ran strict schools, a teaching job in a government-aided school offered a favourable option. Many young men and women in the 60s became teachers. Among them were my parents. Their academic lifestyles, moral values, and a light but regular pay packet at the end of the month attracted many youngsters into this noble profession.
During the 80s, almost every school in Mumbai had at least one teacher from Vasai. The culture of studiousness and the confidence that this crop of teachers instilled in their own offspring led to the next generation aspiring for diverse professional courses. Presently, in Vasai, you will come across physiotherapists, dentists, engineers, air hostesses, sailors, builders, interior designers, architects, and so on. But by and large, for the girls, a teaching career is still a popular option.
On a personal level, I started my career as a journalist and eventually walked in my parents footsteps to become a teacher. On the other hand, my brothers and husband chose the technical field.
As the song above goes I did marry a teacher's son, after all.
(Photo courtesy: Pearl Ferreira and friends)
Labels:
Choices
Wednesday, 2 September 2015
One Book - A Thousand Films
The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy is one of my all-time favourite books.
It is a most strange novel in which the story is revealed in the first few pages.
It tells the story of a Syrian Catholic family in Ayemenem, Kerala. It is the story of people who broke the "Love Laws that lay down who should be loved. And how. And how much."
It has all the elements of a blockbuster - scenic location, innocent love, the scent of scandal, the tragedy of death, and so on.
Well, that is not the reason why I like this book.
On another level, if you see, the book is a linguistic feast. The words have a magical quality in the way they are combined. The sounds of the phrases, the word pictures they create in the reader's mind, and their meanings are a rare treat.
The book won the 1997 Booker Prize and made big waves as the first novel written by a young and beautiful girl.
One very interesting fact is that Arundhati Roy had several offers to adapt the book into a film. Yet she refused because she feels that a film creates a single image of the story for the audience whereas a book creates a thousand different images in the minds of the readers.
Therefore, I read the book again. And again.
Labels:
Art and Culture,
Books
Tuesday, 1 September 2015
Silver Leaves
I will never forget the first time I saw it. In primary school, a friend smiled secretively and opened her notebook. Inside the pages lay the most exquisite thing I had ever seen. It was a tender folded leaf with a silver velvet texture.
...
The second time I saw it was on a nature walk with my boyfriend. It was raining heavily and we didn't carry an umbrella. As we turned a corner to take shelter under a big tree, we saw a creeper with large heart-shaped leaves embracing the tree. The leaves at the tip of the vine were silver! My companion reached up and plucked a leaf. It was one of the first gifts of pure young love.
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This monsoon, when we visited our hometown, the first thing we saw as we looked out of the back door was a vine with the silver leaves entwined around a papaya tree. It was the best welcome gift we could have wished for. To have something so utterly precious growing in our backyard was a blessing.
Looking beyond, we saw the same vine growing berserk like a giant beanstalk on a tall palm tree. At the top it was crowned with tubular purple flowers.
...
Some research informed us that the botanical name of this vine was Argyreia Nervosa and it was commonly known as Elephant vine (because of its large elephant-ear leaves) or Hawaiian Wood rose (because of its woody-rose-like seeds).
Ancient ayurvedic texts claim that it has aphrodisiac properties. It is used to delay old age and to strengthen the body.
...
Well, useful or not, the vine has an unparalleled majestic beauty and it is a pleasure to have it naturally growing in our backyard.
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Nature
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